"BEIO"ing subject

last SG · 2003-04-17T11:58:44+00:00

[quote]Originally posted by SunRisE: [b] If he denys seeing then keep on joking.. let him know that you dont mind about it.. but of cos not too much oso.. I...

SunRisE SG

goin to.. but haiz sianZZz... Neutral

dark_slayer79 SG

sianz? wanna tell me abt it?

|itt|e SG

erm... when guys bio gers there are a few posibilities we will do:
1) react like what u did, pretend you never see and focus on other stuffs
2) bio together with him and see what comments he will make.
3) stare at him and make a mountain out of a mole hill.

As for me i chose (2) cos i like to see how my bf will reacts if he knows that i am also looking... sometime i will tease him or ask him "very pretty hor"? then of cause he will come up with something like " no lah.. you prettier".... Rolling Eyes I personally dun mind him looking at other gers la... We gers also at times look at guys... this is a vice visa thingy. Dun take it too serious.. might spoil the relationship between you guys. Try to spot together with him.. like that it will become more fun rather than getting jealous over nothing.
After all he is ALREADY yours. Laughing

bismarck SG

some ppl also start topic when they are not experiencing the prob mah. use yr blain too Twisted Evil

Yunhaier SG

If your bf don't bio girls on the street, probably only meant 2 things:

Firstly: He is a gay (which is not likely)
Secondly: A possessive guys, probably get jealous easily too.

Why possessive? Because possessive guys don't like their gf to bio other guys (Inferiority), thus they themselves wouldn't do it (or at least in the presence of their gf - because they themselves know that if their gf does it, they wouldn't like it - CloUdiSm - Possession: Narrow vision Theory). Rolling Eyes

Basically, I rather a guy who bio whenever he likes than a guy who only bio behind their gf's back. Now that I mentioned it - which one do you think you prefer? Doing behind your back or being himself?

Cheers

^Ger^ SG

aiyo use your blaaain too.... i did ask for any self-consoling tips already right? means happening to me lor... aiyo bludder.....use your blaaaain...*cough* Mr. Green

^Ger^ SG

the play play suan thingy is from my own experience...not read from elsewhere one... the teasing is also a way of flirting with one another that one den is i read from somewhere.. but i forgot where.... Mr. Green and about the "i realise she likes to talk to guys who talk a lot of rubbish" referring to her?? why do u wan to master that art? its not art anyway.... a quite natural thing.. Wink cheers

boy in blues SG

i feel that i can't bring myself to take my GF lightly, as in talk rubbish and suan her. i wish to treat her with respect, dignity, sincerity, honesty and no gimmicks. Unfortunately, she prefers to engage in conversation that contains 'bullshit, crap, cock-stories, suaning...etc' which leaves me no choice but to cater to her needs. how did u guys pick up that skill and how did u psycho yourself to bring yourself to suan and poke fun without offending other party? treat them less seriously? Thanks.

^Ger^ SG

actually hor..... u this kind of case got advantage n disadvantage.... advantage is : it's good lah that u like to be serious.. cos ur gurlfren can be sure that u dun go around "hee hee haahaa"/suaning/ playplay with those gurls.. as i say teasing n suaning is also another way of saying i lyk you or rather flirting ard.. can be gentleman.. thats what a lot of gurls like their guys to be... i agree with that too....
disadvantage is: too serious also not good lah... cos it will be like no conversation... like cold war that kind of feeling... so mus sometyms play play... got wat funny de not too absurd or kua zhang de jus say out lor... make her laugh.. thats what we gurls like... make sure wat u say is not cold can oreadi(as in not funny)... start with small little suaning first ba...make sure its not hurting too..(im sure u wuld not say hurtful words to da ones u love or like right?). also learn to say n giggle at the same tym if not she will think that u r serious.. den hor horrrr!......open yourself a bit ba...
aiya frankly speaking this kind of thing must liao jie each other long enuff first den can play play one.. if not later she wan bu qi.... blah blah den problem zueh zueh liao..... jus naturally lidat lor.... yes.. that all i wan to say... n lastly keep smiling.... Very Happy

^Ger^ SG

also not say tok rubbish la.... tok rubbish like u not real to her lidat... like all ur words all rubbish.... is teasing lor...with a hint of flirting...sometyms i pronounce one word wrong;y or make myself malu in front of him , he will tease me lor... laugh at me den we will laugh together n i jus *ah bish* him(use fist lightly bish the stomach) or tickle him in da tummy...or bite him on the arm.... den laugh together..den very fun already...... u said that ur gurl likes cock stories, toking rubbish all that.. im sure she can take your play play n suaning of her ba... its nothing hard la... zi ran er ran one... if u think u offend her in some ways den jus apologize to her.. n tell her u didnt know she can't take those "suaning"... (hey, why am i giving advice now instead?!?!) hahaha...nvm..

boy in blues SG

Crying or Very sad sniff...thanks ALOT for your valuable advice leh. me really got a lot to catch up in love game. sigh...last time never watch enough J-doramas, so not expert enough. Seriously speaking, what you just shared strikes me very deeply in my heart. it is exactly what i have suspected. yet i really need the affirmation of a girl whose personality is almost identical to my GF. and your personality i feel from what you type, is so identical that i almost feel scared. well, except for one thing. At least you are aware that guys who play play suan you are actually trying to flirt with you. Sigh...my GF unfortunately, is MUCH more 'innocent' in this aspect. Sad
oh, i almost forgot. yeah...keep smiling... Embarassed *trying very hard*

boy in blues SG

Mr. Green aiya...i helping you to apply self-induced therapy mah. by advicing other people problems you also affirm your own sub-conscious believes. from your level of maturity that i see from your messages you are probably able to solve the exact problems if they happened to your best friend instead of yourself. why don't you try bieo-ing yandaos and praising their yandao-ness just to test his reaction? maybe he too self-confident of your faithfulness to him. let him know what jealousy feels like once in a while. after that, if he want to make a big hoohaa, just tell him you teasing him because he did first unto you mah. then he sure got nothing left to say liao. next time he will consider your feelings more. sigh...me here is dealing with a gurl so must really watch my step, but you are dealing with a guy, and if like that small thing he also cannot tahan, i really dunch-noe what to say liao... Smile

^Ger^ SG

ya i did .. i did try that before.. u think i toopid meh.. of cos can think of this solution to make him jealous back... humans are all cruel... but to no avail... can u read those thread in front?? those i type are wat i wan to type here.. go read pls go read....and hor this kind of thing cannot always one... will be irritating.. maybe he din know he look look will make u angry ma... sculy u revenge, den he bu shi wu gu.... bu hao bu hao....

boy in blues SG

Smile ya, i also agree it's not a good idea to challenge make each other more jealous lor. sure worsen relationship one. tiring also mah. by the way. has he ever told you what are all your good points which attract him hah? just want to be sure he not your boyfriend just for superficial reasons lor. you also can subtly let him tell you...like maybe start first with you sharing why you attracted to him lah. then, you in between talking can also ask him for his views about you mah. hope that he can affirm many good points about you (with supporting details) which transcend chieo-ness, to reassure you that his love for you was founded upon your more stable attributes. from how much he can share also can test how much he understand you and appreciate what you did for him. hope that after he can provide many valid reasons liao, you wunch feel so bothered by his bieo-ing because you more assured he wunch go astray mah. Smile... Smile

10cm SG

body like tom cruise? alamak... die man

even the ginger bread man is taller den him

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